SO R. KELLY IS A PIMP…WHY ARE WE SURPRISED?
The world has been inundated this week with the latest story of R. Kelly’s alleged improprieties with barely legal girls looking for stardom after his promises of “helping” them with their music industry careers. At first glance, the “sex cult” headlines caught my attention but then after delving fully into the original #Buzzfeed story, my disdain for Kelly turned into disgust for the piss poor judgment of the parents involved. Yes, I said parents…as in multiple sets of parents, condoned the interaction of their teenage daughters with R.Kelly, initially. According to the article, the parents, who are now claiming their daughter has been brainwashed, knew of R. Kelly’s sordid past but thought they could protect their child. Both Mother and Father uprooted their lives to move to Atlanta to jumpstart their daughter’s music career and considered themselves to be “fiercely protective parents”. Now, I cannot for the life of me figure out why any sane grown parent would rationalize any possible reason for their teenage daughter to be placed in a situation where R. Kelly’s old sweaty illiterate ass is a mentor! This is the oldest game in the book, and in this case his longstanding rumors of sexually deviant behavior is well documented over the whole damn internet.
This man came up with a whole docudrama called “Trapped in the Closet” explicitly detailing his pimp fetish yet these parents still thought it was cool. I’m sorry but the parents get no sympathy from me. This incident should be used as a teaching moment for parents of daughters on how to spot “game” from a mile away. There are too many Mothers out there who refuse to be transparent with their daughters about their poor choices and cause the vicious cycle of abuse to be repeated. Additionally, those Fathers need to come clean and show their daughters how to spot the sinister bastards of the world by admitting that they had “game” back in the day. Transparency can be humbling but I find it necessary to connect to younger generations. I would rather be a little embarrassed by sharing my story with my daughter than being devastated by hearing that she needed to find “love” by becoming a masochistic sex slave.
Once I became a mature woman, and I had my first experience attempting to date someone much younger than me, I immediately knew what a deviant you have to be to seek out teenage girls. I couldn’t even stomach the juvenile conversation, much less anything physical. Eww! The only reason you seek out someone less mentally developed than yourself consistently is to control them. R. Kelly has called himself the Pied Piper of R&B for years, clearly not by accident. The whole premise of the Pied Piper folktale was that he lured the town children away to their death with his irresistible musical prowess. Now, I don’t think that Kelly is smart enough to be considered a cult leader. I refuse to give him that title. He is simply an ordinary predator with money and resources to convince naïve young women that only he can love them properly. He convinces them that they need him as their “Daddy”, even though some of these girls have very present Fathers. I really struggle to understand that part.
This is the precise reason why we need to educate our children early to psychological games played by predators. There are myriad forms of abusive relationships but many of them start with subtle manipulation like what R. Kelly used. Promises of career help or VIP treatment are common ruses used by pimps to get their stable together. This is exactly what R.Kelly has done, assembled a stable of groupies who willingly traded in their dignity for this perceived VIP lifestyle. Unfortunately they won’t even realize the psychological damage being done to them until they age out of the stable and are left to pick up the pieces of their wasted lives. Sex trafficking is real and R. Kelly just gave you a celebrity face to associate with it.
Again I implore you, please educate your children about the professional way to network in the entertainment industry. Also remember boys are victims too,(Jerry Sandusky, Bishop Eddie Long, James Cleveland, boy band manager Lou Pearlman and The Beltway Sniper John Allen Muhammad). We all think that this won’t happen to our child because we are there to protect them but I have never met a parent that really knows everything their child is doing on their devices. Obviously these parents thought they knew too…This is why the Bible says never to give the devil a foothold. The Pied Piper of R&B is the devil and it seems that he has settled in for the long haul. Protect the kids please, parents that is your Divine assignment.